of flirting in one weekend?". 114 Patriarchy and Women Patriarchy is "a system of social structure and practices in which men dominate, oppress and exploit women which is well reflected in the ways of dating in Korea. 14 A survey of newspaper readers suggested it was time to abandon the "old fashioned rule" of men paying for the first date, based on women's greater earning capacity. Neil Offen (February 13, 2010). He doesn't have to make much more than I do, but he must be doing at least as well as I am, and has to be compatible with me, both morally and spiritually. 22 Internet "QQ" chat rooms. 98 Parents and relatives exert considerable influence, sometimes posting matrimonial ads in newspapers and online. "If you send a thanks-but-no-thanks mail says one dater, "it often triggers another email, pointing out that you should be interested in them because of X, Y and." Jason Fell (August 9, 2011). (?) there are elementary children confessing their love. But he was lacking in the leg department.